Mentors and Their Place in College Athletics

Recently, I wrote a series about Lache Seastrunk and his “real” mentor. The truth is, like many young men, Lache Seastrunk had several people that he could turn to for advice. This is a key component in the raising of any young man.

College athletics, and football in particular, can be exhilarating and breathtaking. During the 2009 football season, my own son was a high school senior playing football for a small school. I would leave after work to arrive just in time to watch his games; only to turn around, drive home and get up early the next morning for tailgating at Autzen. It was an incredible year in which I logged thousands of miles to watch football. From places like Condon and Ione, Oregon to Pasadena, California; I drove everywhere.

As I remember the small details; early mornings at the stadium for GameDay. The incredible victory over USC that late October night. I remember the air, cool and crisp, the moon light over the stadium. Missing in all of this is the most difficult thing for me to imagine; many those young men I was watching at Autzen did not have a father driving all over their state to watch them play football.

As mentioned in the Seastrunk articles, what should have been a happy moment in their life, is lost because they just do not have a father to share it with. I am incredibly touched and moved by the hundreds and thousands of single mothers who put so much effort into raising young men. But there is a reason men and women are different; children need both sides; they need male and female influence. Without it, they are incomplete.

In the old days, when most of us relied solely on a local newspaper for our daily sports fix, we knew little of the influences surrounding the players we cheered for; we only knew what they did on the field. There is a little bit of naïve nostalgia in remembering those days. But let’s not kid ourselves, as long as young men have been getting a scholarship to play sports, there have been young men in need of a male role model.

Fortunately, this used to be a fairly easy task, coaches treated the young men as their surrogate kids. Coaches became role models and the young men often had the coach to thank for getting them through tough times. Then things began to change. As sports became the “ticket to wealth” hangers on began to infiltrate. Young men in need of guidance became “meal tickets” to men that knew how to exploit weaknesses. One person is known to have looked for prospects who were being raised by single mothers; and use that as a weakness to insidiously insert themselves into the young man’s life. Often times, like any successful con man, there was real advice offered; sometimes even good advice. But the question begs, is it truly good advice if the intent is not pure?

There are good mentors and bad mentors in the realm of college athletics. One of the incredible resources athletes have is the Fellowship of Christian Athletes (FCA). FCA is a great place for young men who are Christian to get a strong bond with others; there are FCA reps that take some of the troubled youth under their wings. We rarely hear of success stories. Instead, like all too common today, we only hear the negative. Unfortunately, the hangers on have even made their inroads through FCA.

The NCAA is certainly looking to stop the proliferation of third parties and their undue influence on young athletes. While many focus on the current investigation and what legislation might occur as a result, lost is that the NCAA HAS attempted to address this issue in basketball. In 2002, the NCAA started a pilot program called “NCAA First Team.” The concept was to identify young kids who were elite level basketball players and was designed to serve as a four-year education and mentoring program aimed at potential D-I college basketball prospects. The program targets rising 9th and 10th graders and selects student-athletes based on several criteria, including college potential, academics and citizenship. Once selected for the program, young adults are invited to annual summer conferences at various locations around the country, where for 3-4 days they participate in programing aimed at preparing them to become college student-athletes. From year-to-year, there are about 200 plus kids with in the four classes participating in the program.